Just got the tmobile android 12 update on my Oneplus 9pro global version and its causing issues

Definitely appreciate you helping; I just can't find anything that has update in it in apps (i've looked) besides "Dynamic System Updates" "Built-in App Updates" and "Config Updates".  The update doesn't even show up in the notification bar, it only shows up under system update in settings, and will always show installation paused and then just go ahead and update for me on it's own.  Very frustrating :(

I'll post something on XDA and have been reading both them and OnePlus forums to find a solution but thus far it's not been anything that's worked.  I've also tried safemode but it's still being forced during that.