Can someone provide me all of the contact information for support and complaints for T-mobile please

This really should have been a much smoother process for you and your husband and I'm sorry you've had a lot of trouble. I do think our T-Force team can dive into this and can give you some help resolve this. Working with folks that have account access is the best bet on getting this resolved. You can reach out to our T-Force team through the Facebook or Twitter links in my badge or on our Community-2153​ page. Give them a chance to give you a hand with this.